How you make the transition from friends to lovers? You keep telling yourselves the opportunity isn’t right and you don’t want to ruin the friendship. Yet every time you guy’s hang out you seem to be drooling over him in his sweats or imagining her in your wet t-shirt. When he’s with someone your single, and when she’s with someone you’re dating and having sex with everyone in sight. Somehow you two always end up on each other’s couch venting about your latest failed relationships.

If the girl who is just your friend knows more about you than the girl you’re dating, you’re in trouble. Women love to talk! We want to know who, what, where, when, and why. If there is another woman in your life, other than your Mother, who knows you have a crazy obsession with Star Wars, we want to know about it! When you share more of the details of your day with your best friend, but leave the sex part for the new girl you’re dating, you’re swimming in shark infested waters.

Ladies, your male best friend is your very own Mr. Fix It! If you always run to him to fix things, i.e. your heart, then why isn’t he your boyfriend? If the guy you’re dating doesn’t know how to change your tire, and the first person who you think to call for help is your “bestie”, you may want to consider making him your handyman/boyfriend. Let’s face it the man who comes to your rescue is your hero ladies, and the one who has no clue just isn’t all that attractive anymore.

Ultimately you both make each other happy. You’ve counseled each other through countless break-ups, bad dates, and at this very moment both of you are single. You already have what it takes to have a successful relationship; love, communication, and trust. There will never be a perfect time, but honestly you’ve been dying to know what it’s really like to cuddle and date your best friend! Somehow you two always end up on each other’s couch venting about your latest failed relationships.